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House Rules

Welcome to UpDating—where real-world connections happen, and respect is always in style! Our mission is to create a fun, safe, and inclusive community where everyone feels comfortable being their authentic selves. To keep the good vibes going, we’ve set up some simple ground rules. Think of this as your guide to being an awesome part of our community.

1. Be Your Best (Authentic) Self
We love the real you! Be honest in your profile and interactions. No catfishing, no pretending—just genuine, awesome people looking to make real connections.
 

2. Respect is Sexy
Treat others how you’d want to be treated. Kindness, empathy, and understanding go a long way. Rude, disrespectful, or offensive behavior? Big swipe left from us.

3. Consent is Key
Always get clear, enthusiastic consent before taking things to the next level—whether it’s sharing personal details, meeting up, or anything else. No means no, and silence isn’t a yes.

4. Keep It Classy (and Legal)
No sharing or requesting explicit content, and definitely no illegal activities. We’re here for meaningful connections, not for breaking the rules.

5. Privacy is Precious
Respect the privacy of others. Don’t share someone else’s personal information or photos without their permission. Your data is safe with us, and we expect the same from you.

6. Report the Bad Apples
If you see something shady or feel uncomfortable, don’t hesitate to report it. We’re here to help and make sure everyone feels safe.

7. Be Inclusive and Open-Minded
Our community is diverse and beautiful. Embrace differences, whether it’s culture, background, gender identity, or sexual orientation. Hate has no home here.

8. Real-World Safety First
When meeting up, choose public places, let someone know where you’re going, and trust your gut. Your safety is our top priority—online and offline.

9. No Spamming, Scamming, or Scheming
This isn’t a marketplace or a platform for unsolicited promos. Keep it genuine—we’re here for connections, not transactions.

10. Have Fun!
This is your space to meet awesome people, share laughs, and create memories. So relax, be yourself, and enjoy the UpDating experience!

 
Breaking the Rules?
We take this rules seriously. Violations can lead to warnings, suspensions, or even permanent bans. But hey, we know you’re here to have fun and meet amazing people—so let’s keep it positive!
 

Thanks for being part of the UpDating community. Together, we can create a space that’s fun, respectful, and full of real connections. Happy Dating! 😊

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